PUA’s dress normal now, talk normal, try to do as little “canned” routines as possible. (Though to be honest, going up to a girl and saying “Hey”, is a routine, asking for a number is a routine, pulling her home is a routine, you might not be conscious of it… but it still is a routine. Everyone has their own routines.)

PUA’s buy girls drinks (Just not as an opener to buy “attention”).

You can’t say ALL pua’s don’t do drugs/drink/smoke… some do, some don’t. Though going out sober will make you remember more shit, thus learn more. So it’s advised to go sober…. though drinking is fine.

Smart PUA’s advise being “discreet”, as to not make woman feel like sluts and giving their friends shit to gossip about, so they avoid all cameras too.

Jobs is stupid too…. some PUA’s are lawyers, doctors, etc. Some are jobless…

Soundtrack to life…. dude… seriously? Not all PUA’s are the same. If you add up every piece of music a PUA listens to then you’ll have every genre in that list.

“Never successful with girls prior to studying The Game…..” yeah sure… that’s why they get in the game.. to seek help. There are a handful who were good “naturals” and wanted to become better… or wanted a clear understanding on what they were doing so they became PUA’s.

“Suburbia. Places you have never heard of or places you would never go in your right mind.” haha… seriously? The most famous/best PUA’s live in the world’s biggest cities. Las Vegas, London, etc

Heroes…. sure, I’ll give you that one. Top PUA’s are still praised and seen as Gods.

Slang…. yup I’ll give you that one too…. though many PUA’s advocate losing the shitty terms as they’ll only alienate you from other people who aren’t PUA’s. Obviously not what we want.

PUA’s and G’s both want everything out of life… PUA isn’t just about getting girls but getting a life… social life, activities, woman, etc.

The only true difference I can see is that G’s are obsessed with money and being “high rollers”…. PUA’s don’t give a shit. PUA’s go into the more spiritual side of: “Don’t care what other people think of you”, and: “Destroy approval seeking behavior”.

This includes getting mad props for having an expensive car, big house or a playmate model on your arm.

Hope this gave you some clarification.

Who talked about fancy watches?

You will want to understand the basic mechanics of attraction, seduction, communication, connection or whatever we should call it these days. Once you have that down, you will want to stay the course rather than become a slave of some stupid 5 million steps attraction model. But PUA’s, being men, learn sequentially and for some reason fail to free their persona from the crutches of the “attraction model” of choice, once they have integrated the learning they need.

That’s why I love this post – there’s a sort of no bullshit vibe to it. One that many of the younger members of the PUA community could really learn from. I’ll definitely carry that thought with me (and link to this article) in future work.

Exactly.

Bruce Lee didn’t only use one style of Kung Fu, right?

- MPM

The PUA mentality is flawed in a sense that the PUA views the world through his PUA goggles only. Everything that does not fit into this view will be discarded. That, in a sense, reverts the PUA wannabe into a good old… AFC. Why trade one set of limiting beliefs for another? Of course, no wannabe PUA will agree with me here

I don’t think of myself as a PUA, in fact… I focus only on pleasure. Like you, I go for the best I can find. Not to validate myself, … but because life is short.

In many aspects, your manifesto translates very well to my own philosophy and teaching in natural seduction. For years now, I have gone out with guys, and banned nick-names and winging all together during my workshops or nights out… I openly tell women about the PUA lifestyle, and casually seduce them as we talk about how cool it is to strive for something better.