Ten Tips For Picking Up Strippers
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Here is an article by Dean Cortez Strip Club Game: 10 Tips For Picking Up Strippers:
(My comments in Bold)
Here are ten of my tips for strip club success:
1. Go in with the right mindset: when you’ve got game, you know you’re way more interesting and confident than 99% of the customers who come to this place. Strippers spend most of their shift having tedious conversations with lame, predictable men. Once you’ve demonstrated otherwise, she’ll be pleasantly surprised to meet you.
Excellent Advice. Only I go into a Gentleman’s Club knowing I am way more interesting and confident than 99.99999999% to 100% of the customers.
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2. When you enter the club, walk around with your head held high, like you are totally familiar with this environment. Never lurk or mill around as if you’re unsure of where to sit. Find a seat and settle in, preferably near a speaker. (I’ll explain why in a moment.) Do not sit on “pervert row” (this is what the girls call the seats in front of the stage.)
Always enter with mad swag. And Dolo. I prefer sitting near the bar.
3. When a stripper you like approaches you, don’t let her sit on your lap. Make her sit beside you. (”Whoa, easy there! Have a seat next to me until we get to know each other a little better.”) Having a cocky, playful attitude goes a long way in the strip club. It conveys confidence and establishes that you understand her “game”-and aren’t going to follow her script.
I don’t mind if an Exotic Dancer sits on my lap in an outdoor smoking area. But never in the club.
Also, don’t agree if she immediately offers a dance. Pretend like you didn’t hear her correctly-act like you think she asked YOU to dance for HER.
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Never get dances unless it is your only opportunity to isolate a girl ie a no-alcohol grind spot. And then, just have her sit next to you while you pitch. Or if you are looking for a “Buzzer Beater”.
Say something like, “Are you sure you can afford me? I charge $100 for three songs, and no touching below the belt.”
Not sure about this line. A little goofy. But the “spin” is correct.
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Get her to sit down next to you, and ask her name. She’ll tell you her “dancer name.” (Mercedes, Porsche, Destiny, etc.) To this, give another playful response: “My dancer name is Hercules. I dance on Tuesdays and Thursdays at the club down the road. But I’ll tell you what if you tell me your real name, I’ll tell you mine. Just promise me you won’t stalk me or do anything weird.”
Again a little goofy. I typically have no issues with getting a Dancers real name. But I typically am wearing custom suits from Savile Row, so that may play a factor.
Say this playfully, and you’ll get her to laugh and tell her your real name. Now you’re starting the interaction on a genuine level, and you’re breaking her out of her “work” mind frame. Strippers, like salesmen, have a canned “script” that they use on every customer; when you control the interaction instead of answering her questions, she is unable to use her script and has no choice but to be real with you.
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Preferably you’ll be sitting with her near a speaker (I suggested you choose this area to sit in), because now you can say “let’s move somewhere quieter, I want to be able to hear you.” This shows you value what she has to say, and gives it the feel like a “mini date”: you’re taking her somewhere, even if it’s just to the other side of the room. Physically leading a woman to another area is a great way to convey masculinity and confidence.
I like this theory. I do the same thing only chill at the bar and take an Exotic to go smoke. Builds rapport.
4. Keep your eyes off of her body and maintain eye contact. Never comment on how good she looks; if anything, call her “cute.”
“You’re cute, but I can tell there’s more to you than meets the eye. So tell me something about yourself that none of these customers would ever guess about you.” (Again, you’re framing yourself as not being a customer.)
Excellent technique. Never be like “regular guy”.
5. Be respectful of her profession. Never refer to it as “stripping”; the term to use for her is “dancer.” Say (or imply) that you’ve dated dancers before and demonstrate familiarity with her profession. Then I’ll say, “It’s too bad I swore off dating dancers, because I can tell you and I would get along.” (If she asks you “why you don’t date dancers,” be vague-just tell her, “It’s a long story, I’ll tell you about it sometime.” Then ask her another question that prompts her to keep thinking and sharing.
Straight out The G Manifesto playbook.
Another good line to use: “I know you must have some funny stories from working here. My friend is a dancer in Las Vegas, and she told me some hilarious stories about the customers who come in these places”
Too standardized. Every girl has heard this one a million times.
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6. Befriend the staff: bouncers, coat check, bus boys, DJs, managers, the owner, etc. When you visit, staff members should know and greet you. This gives you high social value (or “social proof”) in the eyes of the dancers; again, you’re not a typical customer.
Again, straight out The G Manifesto Playbook. Lock the spot down.
Befriending male staff members is easy: I’ll bring a can of Red Bull over to the doorman and say, “Here, I thought you could use this,” and give him the drink. Then tell him, “you must be the envy of all your friends-hanging out in a club full of beautiful, half-naked women every night and getting paid for it. By the way, my name’s Dean.”
Nine times out of ten, the doorman will proceed to tell you why working at a strip club is anything but exciting and glamorous. Have a few laughs with him; chat for a few minutes, then head back to your seat. He knows you now, and he’ll appreciate the gesture. Every time you return from now on, he’ll give you a warm welcome.
Befriending the manager or owner will give you even greater social proof. To do this, I’ll ask my waitress to point out the person who is running the place. Then I’ll walk up to the manager/owner, introduce myself, and tell them this is one of my favorite clubs. Then, I’ll say that I’m trying to find a good location for my buddy’s upcoming bachelor party and I think this place would be perfect. I’ll ask how much it would cost to reserve a VIP room and several dancers for a few hours.
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(I never actually come back for any bachelor party; I just use this as an “ice breaker” to get to know the manager/owner. They’re happy to talk to me about this. When I return in the future, if they ever ask me about the bachelor party plans, I say with a smile, “well actually, it looks like we’ll be throwing him a divorce party pretty soon. Do you do those, too?”
7. Don’t forget, the girls are there to make money. Go on slow nights when there aren’t a lot of customers vying for their attention. When you sit down with a girl and you’ve been chatting for a little while, it’s okay to buy a dance from her-but a minute or two into the song, tell her she can sit back down, and resume the conversation. (Again, always behave like a non-customer.)
Weeknights are always best at The Gentleman’s Club. Weekend nights are only if you have the spot on lock.
8. During the conversation, apply the same tactics you would use on women in a bar. Use techniques like Cold Reads and Hypotheticals. Many examples of these are explained in the “Secrets Of Strip Club Seduction” book. At all times, you will control the direction of the conversation and keep taking it to a deeper level, instead of trying to fill the time with pointless small talk.
9. One of the most effective ways to bond with a stripper is to get her to reveal her hidden talent and or/ambition. They’ve all got one. Strippers are used to customers treating them like brainless sex objects, and deeply appreciate it when a guy recognizes them for being more than that. This conversational thread also gives you the opportunity to reveal YOUR talent/ambition to her. (To women, a guy with passion and ambition is often MORE attractive than the guy who already has a lot of money.)
True. But having tons of CASH never hurts.
10. As far as “closing” with the dancer you like, the “Secrets Of Strip Club Seduction” program contains some very clever (and effective) methods for scoring her phone number and getting her to agree to meet you after her shift ends. (Special tactics are necessary here, because strippers normally have a tendency to be flakes.)
Meeting up with that same night needs to be your primary goal. This is why an essential part of seducing strippers is knowing two or three “go-to” spots that are within easy driving distance of the club, where you can meet and chill with her when she gets off work.
Always have the “after hours” spots on lock.
Always “oversell” these places to her. Instead of asking her to meet you at a bar (which sounds boring and ordinary), tell her that the bar has “the most amazing appetizers” or “the most incredible jukebox” or that “your buddy Mike the bartender makes the best margaritas you’ve ever tasted.” This provides additional motivation and frames you as a guy who is “in the know” and is going to turn her onto something cool.
Talk to you soon –
Your Wingman,
Dean Cortez
Original Article: Strip Club Game: 10 Tips For Picking Up Strippers
Be sure to check The G Manifesto’s Gentleman’s Club Resources:
Strip Club Tip: Lobster Trapping
Advanced move for Picking up Exotic Dancers
The Gentleman’s Club Theorem AKA The Local Bar Theorem
Manifesto Destiny II: Innovative Gentleman’s Club Concepts
Manifesto Destiny: The Gentleman’s Club
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27/06/2009 at 4:24 pm Permalink
I realize these aren’t your steps to picking up a stripper, but you should know that this list is truly awful and some of the worst advice I have ever read. I’m allowed to say that as a former dancer, myself.
First of all, the dancers are there to MAKE MONEY and distracting them from their jobs and trying to NOT spend money is the equivalent of some dude standing in line at the Subway chatting up the girl behind the register who has a long line of customers to help.
Almost ALL dancers are irritated by men who think they can “befriend” dancers and come off as a regular guy, because regular guys don’t go to strip clubs looking for romance……we know better and most dancers are not as stupid as this writer seems to think they are.
Asking a dancer her real name is usually a violation of club policy (if it’s a half decent club with rules) and could get the dancer fired. Yeah, women love losing their jobs for a date. Also most clubs have a strict policy against dancers EVER giving out their phone numbers or dating a customer and this is very strictly enforced in most clubs. Again, a dancer with sense knows this will get her immediately terminated and also is extremely dangerous. This woman will assume you are a predator or stalker (since most of the regulars are).
The worst I’ve read here is telling men not to sit at the stage. Again, the club I worked for would remove gentlemen who refused to go up and tip the girls who are dancing. Do you know what the dancers call men who watch the girls on stage from a few rows back? They are called “Pussy Peepers” among the strippers. This is used to describe a scumbag who thinks he deserves a free show. Again, staying in the back WILL NOT get you in good with ANY dancer, and especially not the bouncers or manager because they get tired of hearing girls complain about the “pussy peepers” and having to tell them to tip or get out of the club.
On meeting the dancer at a nearby place? Never happen. The club I worked for, the bouncers would stand outside with spotlights and make sure no one follows the girls home and to make sure the girls aren’t “meeting up with any men down the block”. Why? Because that is usually another quick way for a dancer to lose her job.
I’m not trying to rag on your blog or on your posts….but from a dancers perspective this is all pretty much the opposite of what any half intelligent dancer would like a man to do. We’re there to make money, never to find love. We don’t even see human beings in front of us….we see dollar signs. That’s what makes it a JOB. If a doctor viewed each patient as an actual human, they’d have a breakdown everytime one died. Think of the same thing for dancers. A woman who dances and doesn’t want to “live the life of a dancer” keeps it professional and separates her work from her private life.
Encouraging men to try to pick up strippers is pretty much a cruel joke and it’s very disrespectful for the dancers. A dancer does not need men having any more encouragement on thinking that a strip club is the same as a brothel or an escort service. Think about what you’re encouraging here. You’re offering ways for men to make these girl’s lives more difficult in every way imaginable by all the things on this list. Again, imagine doing these things at a person’s regular job. You wouldn’t be that rude, right? Yet men think dancers deserve less respect and that they “have a right” to try to get laid while they’re there.
That’s what whorehouses are for. Let the ladies do their jobs and stop making it as difficult as you can. Arrive, watch her dance, pay the money you owe her, and move on. You won’t be considered special for distracting her from making money.
13/07/2009 at 7:53 pm Permalink
Hurrah hurrah! I’m sure girls will be more apt to sit with you if you throw some of that ‘ample’ bankroll you talk about. A dancer won’t even remember your name two days later if you’re wearing an expensive suit and all you do is buy her a drink and maybe one dance then Mack on her like she didn’t pay a house fee to be at her JOB.
31/10/2009 at 11:20 pm Permalink
These comments are funny. I have successfully pulled a “dancer” out of a club a few times, back to hotel room ect. And I know plenty of real beautiful EX dancers from Las Vegas, “where I’m from”, who would laugh at you, and your make believe rules and morals about what happens inside and outside a club between two people.
So how did I pick up dancers, Well being good looking, in shape, and a good personality is all you really need.
Dumb dancers like the one above think there is some magical universal rule about not getting hit on at your job. Guess what girlfriend, 99% of girls get hit on at their job, and many find romance there, so stop bickering because you made bad life choices and became a stripper, and then became an something even worse, an unhappy bitchy stripper.
Also maybe you should think about taking more customers home, perhaps if you got fucked more you would stop calling men names and and considering them dollar signs. I might as well view you a piece of ass if I follow your logic, and most defiantly a whore.
Thank god some men and dancers have some class and can actually communicate intelligently in this strange world we live in, while continue ignoring nut jobs like yourself.